How to Make Progress Without Forcing a Single Path

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There’s a particular kind of stuckness that hits when your brain is full of ideas... but none of them feel like the “right” one to start with.

Not because you’re lacking inspiration—but because you're interested in so many things.

One day it’s writing a blog. The next, it’s designing a workshop. You imagine a podcast, a digital garden, maybe even a service-based offer. Each idea feels exciting—for a moment. Then the doubt creeps in: What if I pick the wrong one? What if I commit too soon?

And so, you pause. You gather more input. You wait for clarity.

But it doesn’t come.

Not because you’re confused, but because the world keeps pushing a model of progress that doesn’t fit how your mind works.

Why “just pick one” backfires for creative generalists

Psychologist Barry Schwartz, in his book The Paradox of Choice, explains that too many appealing options can actually increase anxiety and indecision. For creative generalists, that pressure is multiplied—because your options aren’t just tasks or to-dos. They’re identities.

Every interest you hold feels like a real part of you. Choosing one often feels like cutting off the others.

So when you’re told to “focus,” “niche down,” or “commit,” it doesn’t lead to clarity—it leads to paralysis.

Maybe the issue isn’t you. Maybe the problem is trying to solve a nonlinear life with linear logic.

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Motion doesn’t require certainty

You don’t need to have it all figured out to begin.

Instead of asking, What’s the right path?, ask:

“What’s one thing I’m curious enough to try—for now?”

That’s not settling; It’s prototyping. It’s letting your next step be small, real, and grounded—without asking it to define your whole future.

You’re allowed to explore without rebranding your entire identity. In fact, that’s how most creative generalists find clarity—not through thought alone, but through making.

Try working in projects, not paths

Rather than deciding who you are once and for all, start building short-term experiments that reflect what you’re currently drawn to.

This could look like:

• A 30-day writing challenge on a topic that blends two or three interests

• A beta version of a creative service you’ve been considering

• A themed Substack series that gives shape to your curiosity

Projects give you structure without rigidity. They create focus without forcing a permanent commitment.

And they let you collect real data about what energizes you—and what doesn’t.

You don’t have to shrink to move forward

You’re not behind. You’re not broken. You’re someone whose mind moves wide before it moves deep.

You’re allowed to build clarity through motion, not wait for it to arrive before starting.

So instead of trying to choose your one path... try choosing a path—for now.

Give it a boundary. Let it be imperfect. See what you learn.

Progress doesn’t require narrowing who you are. It just asks you to begin.

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Your Turn

What’s one small experiment you’re curious enough to try next?

Start there. That’s how the fog begins to clear.

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